This week there was another debate on the timeline about Rural Americaā¦seems to happen every few months. But this wasnāt your typical Urban life vs. Rural life debate. It was about whether or not you can find a beautiful wife at a truck stop in the midwest! Simply riveting.
The debate turned into a bigger discussion about why āyoung menā should drop everything, hit the open road and go on an adventure. Mike Cernovich and Matt Walsh, two early gen Xāers/late millennials, have been the most vocal about this. Millennials love to find themselves. As I called out, thereās something crucial missing from this debate: money.
Let me be clear ā this post is not about whether you should go on adventures. My subscribers know I strongly advocate for taking risks and getting accustomed to the unknown. But I donāt advocate for being stupid either.
Someone asked me recently what my other interests are besides what I post about. I said Iām also interested in watches, astrophysics, Renaissance art, cooking and macroeconomics. I think about the American economy and the dollar quite a lot.
Most Americans donāt know how to think about money anymore. And I mean that literally. How much should a decent car cost? What about a house? Whatās the new ācomfortable salaryā everyone should be aiming for? Itās certainly not $100K like it was 10 years ago. Itās not even $250K. Recent data shows over 25% of people making over $250K are living paycheck-to-paycheck.
Americans, overall, arenāt doing well financially. Over 50% of Zoomers still live with their parents.
Almost 1/3 of Americanās donāt have any money saved up in case of an emergency. Theyāre living on the cusp of sanity and homelessness.
Everyoneās financial situation is different. Some people have parents who support them. Some people are doing just fine. They have a full-time job, savings, maybe some investments and some PTO to be used. But most Americans are pretty broke.
What does it mean to be broke? Most people think being broke means āhaving no moneyā, but thatās a very low bar. To be broke means youāre at very high risk of possibly running out of money. If youāre living paycheck-to-paycheck, youāre broke. If you donāt have an emergency fund, youāre broke. If youāre swimming under mountains of debt and can barely keep your head above water, youāre broke.
Iām not going to tell anyone what to do. If youāre broke and you want to travel spontaneously and ālook for a wifeā, by all means. But thinking things through never hurt anyone. How long is that trip going to last? Gas is ~$4/gallon now. Food that doesnāt poison you isnāt cheap. Hotels are expensive. And hey, if you want to sleep in your car ā by all means. But what if things go well with your newfound smokeshow you met at the gas station? Having sex in your car is funā¦if youāre still in high school. Wouldnāt you rather fuck her in a hotel room like an adult?
Regardless of government data, America is in a recession. Everyone can feel it. Everything is becoming more expensive and more people are relying on debt to make ends meet. People allow the little money they have get eroded by inflation, which is only going to get worse. Thereās never been a better time to be realistic about money and to think about it in a way that benefits you 10 years from now. Thereās way too much magical thinking going on.
Iām shifting gears here. I know this isnāt what I normally write about. But I think the way I think about money both practically and philosophically could help some people who may be struggling with it right now whether it comes to making more of it, being more financially disciplined, or getting yourself out of debt. This is not a āHow Toā anything, but a breakdown of the basics from someone who knows what life is like with and without money.
āThis is not financial advice.ā
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