Medcast - Episode 9 - Alpha Male Feminists

In Episode 9 I discuss Alpha Male Feminists, men who were raised to believe that girls are supposed to think and act like men. Afterwards I answer questions from my paid subscribers.

To flesh out my thoughts, I wrote the below post on the topic. The episode and full post is available to paid subscribers.

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A recent post of mine seemed to resonate with a lot of people. I responded to a post that said: “Ask a woman her life goals and she can’t tell you. Ask a woman what she wants out of a man and she can’t stop talking.”

There’s a lot going on here and at the time, I didn’t feel like effortposting. But given the reaction to the post, I’ll do my best to expand on it here. I actually switched back to private because the post was spreading so fast and the hot-summer-day IQ responses were too cringe to bear.

Corporate HR-Speak

The way “life goals” is used in the modern world just rubs me the wrong way. On interviews, you’re sometimes asked “Where do you see yourself in 3-5 years?”

The honest internal reaction is usually something along the lines of: “I don’t know asshole. I just want more money. I want a hot girlfriend. What do you care? You’d lay me off tomorrow if you had to cut costs. Are you giving me the job or not?”

But let’s say you were to answer the question in a smarter and more professional way.

“Well, I’m applying for the Manager position. I’m hoping that within a year I’ll have proved myself to be promoted to Director. If I can prove to the company that I can handle that level of responsibility, I’d like to become VP and run my own division. In my personal life, I’m saving up to purchase a home. After that I’d like to find a wife, settle down to marry and have children.”

The hiring manger subconsciously thinks to himself: “What a good boy! What a safe little consumer. Nothing was said outside of the box and nothing was unpredictable. He’s got a good head on his shoulders. He’s on the straight and narrow. He’s a normal, well-to-do tax payer. Very good. Onto the next question.”

The entire dynamic just reeks of surface level dishonesty. It’s a fake non-question used as a test to see if the interviewee is ambitious. It’s corporate HRspeak, the types of conversations that drain souls. Given American culture has become completely HR-Approved, it doesn’t surprise me that so many people take this concept so seriously outside of a corporate setting.

By the way, I’m not arguing against having 3-5 year plans, nor am I against the professional plan I stated. I think it’s solid. But I don’t like questions that require the answer to fit into a box. You’re not allowed to be honest when being asked those types of questions.

It’s good for men to have long-term plans, to know what they want and to have a plan for making more money over time. But expecting girls to have “life goals” implies quite a bit about their understanding of female nature and reveals they’ve been deeply cucked by feminist thought.

What Do You Bring to Muh Table?

If the idea of asking a girl about her “life goals” on a first date or as some kind of pre-date screening question makes my dick shrivel into my stomach, imagine what it does to a girl’s pussy. If you dig into the responses a bit, there’s a lot of talk about The Table. Muh table! What do I bring to the table? What does she bring to the table. I do X Y and Z, so what does she do for me?

This way of looking at the world reveals a deep belief that men and women are the same. That women can do anything men can do. That women are Strong and Brave, and therefore should be bringing home the bacon just as much as men. Otherwise, that’s not fair!

Not only is this framework terribly wrong, but it sets people up to approach the opposite sex with a competitive mindset. This little Table everyone has in their minds doesn’t exist. Men are supposed to have a long list of admirable qualities that signal strength, reliability and intelligence. That’s what girls select men for. Character. You know what men select women for? Physical beauty. But of course, believing femininst propaganda won’t allow that, and it’s gotten so bad that these men not only expect women to act like men, but they believe women think and select like men as well.

If you look at the reactions to the post itself, there was a fair amount of normal people who interpreted it to mean that “you should know if a girl wants to have kids.” And you should. Personally I think it’s odd to bring that up so early — how about seeing if you two vibe in person or not first? Regardless, most of the men replying as well as the OP, stated very clearly that men need to know what a girl’s career goals are. They want you to make sure that your girlfriend makes a lot of money. The OP also admitted that it’s because he wants to be left alone on the weekends and that women will get into trouble if they don’t have a job. Oh boy. Where to begin.